This is my first post on this or any forum for that matter. I feel compelled to though as I feel like I’m approaching a major change in my life due to discovering all of this…

I’m 28 and live in London. I’m well educated, I run my own successful business and I’m quite good look. Towards the end of last year I split up with a girlfriend I had been with for most of my twenties. We lived together and although the break up was tough I knew it was for the best. It wasn’t like there was any one reason we split up, such as one of us cheating. We were just fed up with one another, drifted apart and didn’t fancy each other anymore.

With my ex, and most of the others girls I’ve been with in my life, I felt they had picked me rather than the other way round. I had never been able to successful approach a girl I really wanted. I had been fortunate on one or two occasions to have 9s and 10s approach me but nothing more than a few dates or a few kisses had really emerged. The girls I ended up sleeping with were 7s and 8s and were the ones who throw themselves at me but I wasn’t really bothered about. I’ve now come to realize that I was showing IOD to these girls and negging them as I wasn’t intimidated. I’m an ambitious, go-getter type and I’ve always been incredibly frustrated by my lack of ability with girls I’m genuinely attracted to!

A few months after the break up I started thinking about dating again. Some female friends said I should try online dating. They said it was easy, ‘just post a profile and the messages start flooding in’. I’ve come to realize that just isn’t the case for guys. I posted a profile. Had a couple of dates with girls who approached me but no success with girls I liked.

It was around this moment a month or two ago I stumbled across some kino demo videos by Lovedrop and Mystery on YouTube. It was all completely new to me but I was instantly hooked. I’ve always believed if I put my mind to something I could work out how to do it and be really good at it. However, I had never applied that rational to women. Realising there was a bunch of guys who had worked out all of this stuff was like a thunderbolt. Fuck this is what I HAVE TO DO! So I start reading the PUA forums, watching YouTube videos, and I bought The Mystery Method. I redid my online profile to express higher value. I stopped sending out the deadly dull messages I had been and I started approaching girls in the field. I’m still only half way through the book but with what I’ve learnt from it and LoveDrops body language videos everything has been drastically changing.

A Friday night a couple of weeks ago I was in a bar with some friends. A friend of a friend had a visitor from Russia. She was 6ft tall and hot – a solid 9. We got chatting and I throw a few routines and employed lots of LoveDrops kino. Hand throws, roll offs, etc. I didn’t really neg her though. She played with her hair but I wasn’t sure if she was that in to me. Anyway, I ended up leaving without even trying to number close. She was leaving on Sunday and Saturday night I had a date with an oriental girl I had met online anyway.

So the following afternoon I’m texting the oriental girl I’m meeting that evening to set up the plans. In her profile pictures she looks hot and quite eccentric. She’s quite flirty already even though we haven’t met yet. She sends me a bunch of wig pictures and ask me which one she should wear. I pick one. She texts me and says what’s the dress code of the place we’re going. I say ‘pirates’. She says she wants me to come as Spock from Start Trek. I say ok but fifteen minutes before I’m due to meet her I text to say I’m not coming as Spock. That way if she is coming as a pirate she doesn’t have time to go home and change. Ha!

We met on a street corner. She arrives looking amazing with all of these little pirate props scattered around her - toy weapons around her waste, little fake skull and crossbones tattoos and a mini parrot. I use her costume to begin kino straight away. I grab her hand and give her a spin and lots of ‘wow what’s this?’ to grab a prop. All calibrated with hand throws and roll offs. I also neg her a bit. I say she would look better if she were in Disney Land.

Meanwhile I get a text from the Russian girl saying she wants to see me before she leaves! She’s gone and track down my number through a mutual friend! I can’t believe it… I arrange to see her for lunch the following day.

Back to the oriental girl - we met at 10pm and before we met she said she had work the next day and she couldn’t be out later than midnight. Midnight came and went with no a mention. The bar closed and we leave. She’s on my arm and everyone we walk past is looking at her – men and women. She’s seriously hot a definite 10. We go to a club and we’re grinding. I’m kissing her neck but she won’t let me kiss her on the lips. I didn’t know what to do to kiss close. I’m not that far through the book yet! Anyway I decide it’s best to protect my investment and see her another time. I call a cab and drop her home.

By the time I wake up in the morning she’s already text me saying she wants to see me that night. Ok cool. Off to lunch with the Russian. We have a nice lunch date a bit of flirting, she keeps grabbing hold of my hand but nothing more. She says she wants to keep in touch over email which we now do. At the bar that night the oriental girl is instantly all over me. Sitting in my lap and getting really carried away. Down the drinks really quickly and take her back to mine. Sweet…

I’m a long way off being any good at game. I’m rubbish at opening a set and still need to have had a few drinks to really attempt it. However, I can’t get over how just a few little things such as amending my body language, kino and throwing a few negs has effected my success rate. Some girl asked me for directions on the bus the other day and I left with her phone number! That’s never happened to me! In the past I would have given her the directions and dashed off because I was intimidated by her beauty. Basically I’m posting to say how excited I am about the future… Even at my novice level I’m doing a million times better than I ever used to. Things are looking up.

P.S. All of my mates are coupled up so anyone in London hit me up…

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