Hello guys, I'm a seduction newbie. I was never lucky with women through all my life and now is the time to change all that.

I'm 41 and I look a lot younger. Girls are always surprised when I tell them how old I am. They often gave me eight years younger and sometimes more. I'm the normal guy, with a not so bad face. I have a little belly and I'm tired of it but I lack motivation to train every day even if I have a little training room fully equipped.

When I was a teenager, I was bullied at school and I think that my social anxiety problem came from there. Today, I am a totally new guy. I'm a lot more confident, I don't have much difficulties speaking with strangers but ... I often don't know how to approach a pretty girl and how to keep an interesting conversation. I occasionnaly approach a hb7, hb8 or hb9 and begin to talk with them and after 30 seconds I don't know what to say and my lack of self-confidence begins to show off. I'am what we call a nice guy.

Last year, I discovered the seduction community and I began to read a lot of articles about seduction on a few websites. The problem is that I don't practice very often. I must also say that I don't really know where to begin. I read a few seduction and related subjects books like;

- Double your dating by David DeAngelo.

- The Game by Neil Strauss but I stopped after 75% of the book because after a few hundreds pages, it was the same.

- The bodylanguage of love by Allan and Barbara Pease.

- How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie. I'm actually reading this book.

- I also have bought the book Rules of the game by Neil Strauss but I have not started yet.

So that's enough for today! See you next time!