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Hey everyone. My name is Ivy. I discovered the PUA community after reading The Game by Neil Strauss which was recommended to me by a close friend of mine. I'm 18yrs old from Chicago. IL, and i currently live in Ga. I've never been breathtakingly shy of the opposite sex but there are many things that I don't understand about them, along with some difficulties and adversities I face whenever trying to speak with them. In total I've slept with a total of only 7 girls and my hope is not that I'll be able to pick any girl out of the crowd talk her up then sleep with her, (which would be a great addition) but is to have that sense of confidence, composure, and knowledge to know what to say. How to say it. & How to deliver all of that, while still being myself and not just some computer that spits out the correct algorithms for what girls want to hear. Any suggestions on where or what to do next?
A few tips. I consider routines to be good training wheels for beginners. However, at some point you wont need them anymore. Start simple. Talk to women everyday, as much as possible. Get comfortable talking to women, then start to incorporate physical escalation (i.e. kino) in a way that feels natural. It's all a process of building up social awareness and confidence. In the end, realize that it's all a numbers game and you only lose if you don't try.
Oh, and realize that most people don't neg. Mystery uses the tactic a lot because he goes after high status women with a multitude of orbiters (models, etc). I never use them and newbies should avoid them for the most part.
Here's a really good place to start reading:
http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.php? ... yers-guide
I hope that helps.
-Wolf
CHAT
