Hi,

My name is Laurens and i'm 20 years old, belgian and eager to learn

I've only had a few relationships and grower tired of the ongoing bullshit every time.

Now i just want to meet women and above all, learn how to pick them.
I saw some video's of gambler and I see now that it's 'just picking up'

I was always very sociable towards everybody and I have got not too much trouble talking to strangers but when it comes to women (especially the very hot ones) i mostly do not know what to do. So that's why i'm here

Hi everybody

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The wisest men is the one that understands his human condition: Stupidity.

Welcome to the forum! As you start your journey here keep in mind that you can't change anyone out there, but you can always change yourself. If you've had past relationships that resulted in BS circumstances don't blame the women, ask yourself what you can do differently. Likewise as you begin to open and approach women if you are rejected...remind yourself they aren't rejecting you they are rejecting your approach...then come back and ask yourself what you can do differently.

Hot women 9s and 10s or whatever term people want to use here are just regular people. They have their problems, their massive insecurities, friends, family, and worry about a lot of the same things we do. They are just people. Granted they are attractive but they are ultimately just another person in this close to being over populated world we live in. Sorry to say they are nothing special in the grand scheme of things...regardless of the fact they are treated special cause of their looks. Treating them like everyone else because their beauty does not effect you is a big key to getting better with them.

Best of luck on your journey,

Jon

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

You make a very good point, jon! Thanks for your reply

what scares me the most is the fact that being aware of something like the things you just said, doesn't seem to always have effect on my behavior when it comes to the point. I hope I can actively act upon this!

Thanks again

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The wisest men is the one that understands his human condition: Stupidity.