Hello all you PUAs out there!
I´m a writer by profession (in german normally haha) so forgive me if I get carried away and this turns out too long...
I stumbled over this whole PUA thing about 3 weeks ago. I heard about PUAs several years ago, namely about Mystery. Saw him on a TV show, but didn´t pay much attention. Figured he was a natural womanizer who declared what he does an art-form so he can turn his success with women into money. It didn´t occur to me that it´s something anyone can learn. Seeing him made me think that to become a PUA you have to be naturally good at the game in the first place. But 3 weeks ago I started to research the whole thing (don´t remember what sparked the sudden interest since this pickup thing is practically unknown to the german mainstream). I read "The Game" and began to look at anything I could find on the web. After 3 weeks of intense study (I have a remarkable memory which helps) I have amassed an incredible amount of info from practically every MPUA and Guru out there and I realize I have only scratched the top of the iceberg so far.
One thing I realized is that I have a lot of natural game that I wasn´t aware of (or better didn´t believe in?). With my new knowledge I realized that whenever things went well with the ladies in the past I had actually been doing the right thing instinctively, just like the "do-nots" you peeps point out opened my eyes why so often I blew things that started well.
I went out a week after I began my research and began to apply what was beginning to obsess my mind. Pretty randomly, without any structure to it, forgetting crucial details on the way, but still I saw amazing results. No real "closes" but more female attention hugs, carresses, bums rubbed against my croth while dancing, then I ever got before. From many girls.

Well the thing is that I got a taste of how good I COULD become at this...
Could. I guess I need a wingman or better be someones wingman, because I found out that I need the backup. To coach and teach me and also to kick my bum, because regardless of this first eye opening night (that can hardly be referred to as a sarge really) I have enormous trouble to do what I went out for. I need someone who is experienced by my side and who will push me in the direction I need to go, help me start BELIEVING I can do this as opposed to just knowing it. I think you guys know what I mean...
I live in the city of Cologne in Germany. Can any of you provide me with info regarding the PUA scene in my city? I could not find anything on that topic on the net yet. I´m not even sure there is such a scene here at this point!
So hopefully you guys can help me out. Sarging all by myself is not working as well as it should. To easy to chicken out when there´s no one to call you on it!!!

Still what I have learned so far boosted my confidence enormously. I´ve been told many times that I´m rather handsome and even charismatic but I never was able to turn these features into assets, was ignored by women mostly. Now that I dove into this new pond, realized things I wasn´t aware of before, I´m suddenly seeing gorgeous faces smiling at me everywhere! Last Friday in a club two gorgeous young girls (I´m 42 but pass for 32 though) checked me out shamelessly, standing right in front of me. One of them touched my chest and ran her fingers down my torso smiling seductively. Then her friend did the same and added "You really look hot". I kept my cool and said thank you. But that was about it. I let them take off. Mostly because I had no idea what to do!!! What should I have done guys. And am I being negative if I consider that they might have been actually making fun of me? I did feel hot tho and even if I didn´t do anything about it the moment as such was, still is, totally "WOW"!
I´d really like to know how you guys would have dealt with that. Basically it´s rather obvious that I need "supervision", which brings me to back to the question:
Any ideas how I can find a sarging partner in Cologne???

The past 3 weeks changed the way I look at the world, at women and especially at myself. I feel like I managed to open some kind of Pandorras box. Now I need someone who´ll help me get it´s contents out!

Cheers guys and damn I wish I found all this much much earlier!!!

guten tag Picun
Welcome to the forum.

Vielen Dank for the greeting Mr. MaleNurse!

Hi Picun

I just joined the forum and your post is one of the first I've read....

I lived in Cologne for 5 years and it was the best time of my life. I read the Game whilst I was there and started to use some basic techniques there. I struggled a bit because my German is quite good, but I can't express my wit or charm in that language - at least, not like I can in English.

Now I live back in England, so I can't take advantage of the pretty German girls in Cologne....

I can't help you with the PUA community in Cologne, but from my experience, I found that Zuelpicher Strasse was very good for meeting girls, especially bars like La Croque. I also like the Live Music Hall on Wednesday evenings, although it was sometimes dead - it looks like the nightlife goes in cycles, depending on whether the students have exams.

At Karneval, make sure you dress sexily. A lot of people blow their chances by dressing for the Geisterzug for every day. A zombie is NOT sexy. A friend of mine who had a lot of success wore really cool suits, shiny material, tight trousers etc.

I come to Cologne 1-2 times a year, if I'm coming I'll let you know.

All the best, Ben

Thanx for the hints Ben. I´ll deffo check out the live music hall during the week at some point. Didn´t occur to me to go to venues like that during the week.
Zuelpicher truly is full of cute girls, actually all of Cologne is crowded with gorgeous women and I recommend that anyone who reads this and visits Gemany should come and see for himself!

I take your word on contacting me when you come over again. Having someone to share this new "hobby" with would be, as the headline of my post implies, a blast!

Peace Ben and happy hunting!