I'm 19, currently doing my grad studies in India and a virgin.

I was a natural.
The kind of guys you read about, who knows exactly what to say to a girl and how to say it. I was lucky that chicks thought i'm cute cause i was never very tall. I was soccer captain though so maybe that helped. I dated the hottest girls in my high school. I literally had girls naked in my bedroom begging me to do them.

But soon i fell in love with a chick and it took us two years to realise that we wanted different things. After that(coupled with a few family issues) i've just not been the same person. In fact i'm the complete opposite. And i'm completely over my ex (its been like a year and a half) so thats a non issue.

And although, I hate the fact that I'm so weak with women now, its not just about girls. Because of this my social life is getting screwed over, I no longer have the impact on a group or a party or my friends that i used to have. And every subtle rejection i get has its toll on my self confidence. So my life seems to be falling apart.

I've read the game by Neil Strauss and a few self help junk buts thats it
I need real help.

Come on mate you had lots of quality,s that most blokes on here would kill for dig deep you will find it sounds like you need to work on your inner game youv,e got some limiting belief somewhere that's holding you back

Yeah...
i thought of that too...
so i need to know what specifically to work on

You need to tell us what parts your struggling with , is it approaching , or opening , or keeping the conversion going , or do you not believe in yourself , don,t worry mate plenty of blokes on here to help

welcome to our hell, Jackass.