Right so I'm not new to all this really but I've never grabbed my balls and jumped in the deepend. NOW is the time. But unfortunately I'm the type that sometimes needs a KICK up the arse.
I'd love a couple of challenges so I can post back here "Yeah I did it."
I keep bottling out and quitting for crap reasons unless I have pressure from someone else- i.e. I used to always say I'll buy you a few pints if I don't ask so and so out etc.
WORKED-
So I guess I can't buy you a pint but you get the idea.
Give me something to get my teeth into and feel free to insult me if I don't do it/ you don't hear back because I'm tough(ish) and I need it.

Read" The rules of the game" by Neil Strauss plenty to challenge you in there its 30 day program something new every day tell me how you go on