Hello all,
I'm located in North Carolina in the US and I'm a 19 year old college student. Not quite in 'the game' yet, but I'm working on it. Reading 'The Game' by Neil Strauss at the moment, and I have a few other books lined up after that one. I actually just started reading it today, and I'm on page 288 so hopefully I'll start practicing in the next week or so.

As far as hobbies/passions, I'm an outdoorsy person while at the same time being a major geek. I love hockey, camping, backpacking, hiking, kayaking, fishing, diving, and rock climbing. Yet at the same time I have a collection of 350ish sci-fi/fantasy novels, I have a sword collection, I watch several different animes, I'm a bit of a computer geek, a bit of a gamer, and I was raised on Star Wars as well as Pokemon.

As far as goals, I just want to be able to close the deal so to speak. I always have girls interested in me, and I will date them occasionally, but I always overthink things and never move further than just minor flirting. In the past I've been friendzoned more times than I care to admit, but now I know what leads to being friendzoned, and I haven't had to deal with that for a year and a half or so.

I'm also suffering from one-itis, though that is fairly common with my personality type. I'm dating girls other than her(though I would date her in a heartbeat), but she is the one I want. Not exactly sure if I'm friendzoned by her or not, she is a puzzle within an enigma. Shes a 9 and never dates, and no-one seems to know why not. I believe that she is suffering from one-itis herself, and that the one she is attracted to is one of her older brothers best friends, so she is just locking herself down completely because of that.


At any rate, I'm not bad looking, I'm actually fairly good looking from what I've been told(though, who says you're ugly to your face?).

My main issues are I'm extremely introverted, my psychologist has described me by saying I am more introverted than 90% of introverts, which I find wonderful
. I overthink everything and place far too much stock in body language. And I just can't seem to work of the confidence to make the next move. Which is odd, I'm a very confident person in most regards, just not when it comes to sexual rejection. For me to be attracted to someone she has to at least be a 6.5 but also has to stimulate me intellectually. The intellectual part is the hard part. As most women around me seem to have an IQ of 75(no offense meant to people with low IQs, I just can't become attracted to someone who cannot provide stimulating conversation).

I really don't care about fashion, and am typically wearing a t-shirt with a pair of cargos. Well, I'm always wearing cargos, whether it be pants or shorts depends on the weather. But I'll occasionally wear a button up or a polo-esque shirt.


Not sure if you're allowed to ask questions in your introduction, but I didn't see anything say you can't.

When you isolate your target and show her something interesting, is a card trick too tacky? Something along the lines of having a force deck with all Queens of Hearts for example, and trying to guess her card correctly after some random shuffling.



Well, that's it. I'm prepared to completely rewrite how it is I am dealing with women, as what I've been doing hasn't been to prosperous. While I doubt I'll be overly skilled with any of the changes more suited to extroverts, I'll do my damndest to master them. Hopefully by the time next semester starts I'll have no problems picking girls up and sealing the deal.

Until next time,
Luzianne