Hey dudes!

Hope everyone reading this post is doing well!

I'm an average 28 year old Indian (south asian, NOT native american) guy living in Charlotte, NC. I've been here for a few years and I do the usual 8 - 6 daily grind at a large bank in downtown and have come to realize that I need more in life than than just work and watch TV. Like most folks, I have joined this forum to better my social skills all around, but MOST importantly better my social skills around good looking women. I basically s#*t my undies every time I find myself around half decent women. In elevators, chik-filet lines during lunch time, you name the setting! I am a friendly guy who has a decent sense of humor around people I feel comfortable around but when it comes to women, my brain stops functioning completely. Sad but true.

My friend told me about the book, The Mystery Method and I am halfway through it already. I have learned a lot from it but putting it into practice is the next step for me. I truly believe that I am blessed to have a job and am as fit as anyone can be, but what is lacking is my life right now is "love" (if you want to call it that).

I hope to get good advice from people on this forum in the near future. I am going to try and grow some balls this week and say HI to every woman I see at work (I read this on a beginners forum somewhere on this website and thought it was a good idea to try). Wish me luck!

Cheers!

welcome .. sounds like you got your health and wealth down ... props ... I'm still working on those myself ... would be great to talk to someone who has that down .. as far as relationships go ... I think it might be easier for you then me ... since u have the other stuff down ... would be great to work together