Im very glad ive fround the community. ive been searching over a year for quality information to help me out in this area and have been lost until now. I really noticed the problem last year when i broke up with my girlfriend of a year and a half thinking id have girls all over me in no time, i soon found how out of touch my game was. ive had a few girls here and there since but nowhere near the success id like, i cant seem to get a grasp on what really goes on in the interaction that sparks attraction. im 20 years old from colorado, im in great shape being into crossfit and fitness, and find myself to be quit an attractive guy, and hangout with goodlooking "alpha" type guys who get laid all the time, and still i dont get much success. But it wasnt always this way, in highschool i was the smallest quietest kid in the room, no girlfriend, no confidence, nothing. then junior year i hit my growth spurt and all that changed, except my self confidence. i still feel like that tiny socially awkward kid in the back of the room and im finding it very difficult to get over this. So im ready and willing to try and experiment with any advice from the community until i get this part of my life straight.