Hey guys the name is John Evergreen

I'm new to the PUA forum. I'm from NYC. I'm 19 years old and in my first year of

college. I am clueless when it comes to PUA or women in general. From other

peoples account i am a chill,laid back guy but, also shy . More of what people

would call "the strong silent type". I am a typically fun guy to be around.

To be honest the reason i came here is want to change. I want to be able to

talk to any woman freely even if I'm not interested in her. When i see females i

generally want to talk to them but I get so nervous that I end up talking myself

out of it. Even if its girls im not attracted to i do the same thing telling myself

theirs nothing i could think of talking to her about. So i today I've had enough of

this and decided to join the PUA forum. I hope this was the right decision. I think

there have been guys in my situation and there is things i can can do to get over

my fears and man up. So in closing i want to say thank you for letting me into the

community and i will try my best.Also Any help or point in direction will be very

appreciated.

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E.G.

Hi John,

If you are clueless, you may want to start of by reading one of the books like The Game by Neil Strauss or Double your dating or others mentioned on this website. For 'noobs' like you (and me), it gives you some of the basic knowledge needed to more easily understand the terminology and principles expounded on this website.

Kind regards,

Niles

PS: you can also ask me about some basic things in a PM, but I am not the man to ask more advanced questions to.

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A man can be happy with any woman as long as he does not love her. - Oscar Wilde