Hi fellas,

I was a very active member for about 2 years prior to the beginnings of my relationship and haven't posted checked the forums since. Anyway, I guess i'm glad to be back in a way. I read once, the best way get over someone is to get under someone else haha, so my question is has anyone had success, fun times with online dating and if so what sites do you recommend? I do feel that I understand I need to get myself into gear and not sulk, but we'll see how things go. Thanks.

How old are you, how's your avatar? What are you looking for?

Welcome (back).

Rodeo.

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

I'm 24 years old and what do you mean by avatar? I'm looking for something casual to raise my testosterone and "alpha male feelings(sexual, protector, provider, etc) feelings that I felt when I was finally getting my game going( after about a year in a half of PUA mentality and daily implementation) I feel that I lost that somewhat caveman/primitive understanding how woman and myself work after about 1.5-2 years into my relationship.

I got to a point where my frame was SOLID, i said what i want, did what i want(yet I was empathic and got over the whole neg theory, always trying to DHV, and was just became a more genuine and honest human being) and if someone wasn't feeling it, it's all good because LIFE is good and I'm grateful to be alive.

Somewhere that disappeared and I've always felt that unless I am able to be a MALE and be sexual with females, then I'll lose my ability and intuition to do so and hence feel less like a MAN(my testosterone levels not spiking during constant male/female sexuality..who knows?)

Like when I would cheat on my GF i still felt like a man AND it made me feel like I appreciated her and loved her more because to me that was purely physical but it still allowed me to not feel like i'm castrating myself by "now i'm in a relationship, no more pussy, no more boobs, no more kisses, hanging out with girls will make my GF feel unworthy and i value her so I don't want to make her feel that way, etc" if you feel me?