Hi guys, I'm 26 yo live in Amsterdam. Struggle with shyness but mostly from a lack of experience with going out. Never had the right group of friends to go out with. I've had a bit of luck with online dating, though tbh they were below average. Fucked just one girl all my life, made out with two, but 0 pretty ones. Both from dating sites. One was a black fatty, another (the one I fucked) a white girl with a nice body but below average face. Lost my V at 24.

I am only shy with pretty girls though. With average/below average girls I am calm and laidback, don't give a sh!t. I've been on dates with pretty girls who I got to know IRL at uni, one was probably an 8, but the dates were pretty much agonizing.

I have real REAL problems with 'inner game' and confidence. Find it extremely hard to try something genuinely new. I feel extremely stuck mentally. I do feel like I have potential, if I had the opportunity to go out with guys in a somewhat similar situation. I know for sure cute girls have shown interest in me. I'm tall and somewhat good-looking, but seriously out of shape and lazy (not fat, skinny but with a bit of belly starting to show - I know, sounds awful right, it is). I'm unfamiliar with the whole club/bar scene, and I do feel like things could be different there with alcohol involved and stuff.

I'd love to meet some wing men to go out with in Amsterdam. This is such a great city and I NEED to live it up, this is my last chance cos next thing u know I'll be 30 and have fucked just 1 below average chick my whole life.

Welcome dude finding out that you want to make a change is powerful and congrats on making that step.

I'm sure there are probably a good group of wings in a city like Amsterdam you could find.

Feel free to private message me anything you want in the way of questions. I've been gaming (both after learning about pickup/"the game" and before I knew this whole community existed) pretty successfully since I was like 14 or so. I'm in my early 20s now and have read and practiced a lot.

I really want to go back to Amsterdam some time so maybe we could go sarging I know a few cool clubs in the city.

where do u live? (guy above me)

Cardiff in the UK. I'm from London originally.

Yeah Amsterdam is a great place to go out! I am sure you will become much more successful with woman when you stay on the boards! Most guys are shy so don't worry about it to much, you can learn to take control of it.

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PM me if you want to sarge, i go almost every week in Amsterdam.

Greetz
Buccaneer

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