Looking forward to digesting everything I can here and hopefully contribute someday. I'm 27, just out of a 7 1/2 year relationship. Thought she was the one, but overtime we grew apart. She ended it, but it was pretty much at that point (lived on separate sides of the country... neither wanted to move.)

I was actually surprised that I was pretty much over it in 3-5 days. Get the occasional dream or sick feeling in the morning, but it passes pretty quickly. I feel liberated, but there's just one problem. I got NO GAME! Lol, been out of the mix for too long... Back in High School / College my game was good enough to land me one nighters and on and off girlfriends, but a lot has changed... woman are a little more difficult once they're in the working world. Time to get to work!

Any initial tips / direction would be much appreciated. Suppose I should start with the openers.

Just finished "the game" by Style and I'm hooked. My cousin gets a lot of chicks and has read a lot of this stuff. He was always wearing goofy shit when we went out now and I grinned when I realized he's peacocking. "Don't hate the player hate the game" he always says, lol. So, I got a wing man or a 'sarger' to test this stuff out with.

Anyway, rambling, but excited. I'm most interested in just getting female friends / making out. Would also like to use these skills eventually in the business world. Game on!

Congratulation on getting over your ex! It's been 6 months and Im still thinking about my from time to time.

From what I understand in your situation, opener isn't going to be an issue with you. You'll just fly pass that. Thing that may be a speedbump would be escalating and building attraction as you been without it for so long, unless you've been practicing behind your ex back. Your right and wrong about high school though. Some women may still like the old cheesy stuff. You'll know once with practice. I'm learning as well.

Good luck on your sarging and MAKE SURE you share your success with us! Its always inspiring to read inspirational stories to keep me(and some) motivated!

Welcome to the community and once again, good luck!

-Jax

Hey Jax, thanks man. After reading through some of the stuff here you're right about the opener, that's not my problem... although I'm starting to memorize a few for use in opening 4, 5, etc. sets as that's something I haven't done, only 1-2 sets for the most part with an occasional 3.

"Escalating and building attraction" - bingo. That's where I need work. After I open I've noticed that eventually I get into asking the turn-off stuff... work / where you live / etc. and that just won't cut it. Very excited and I already have a good feeling about this, both the community and learning the game.

Cheers,

Scott