After number closing a girl and text gaming her I felt the need to formally introduce myself to these forums. I am a high school senior and ultimately, my problem with girls is that I can get their number, build comfort, set up a day 2, then get flaked. I maybe went on one "successful" day 2 but I wouldn't count it because she brought her friends and one of the well known assholes of the school.

Just like most people on these forums I was introduced into the world of PUA by reading The Game and watching The Pick Up Artist on VH1. I guess one could say that I have natural game because I've number closed a lot of girls and texted them, called them, and negged them all before I learned that there are professional PUAs out there.

Here's a short version of my social life disaster: Like I said, I'm a high school senior and have probably number closed a majority of all the HBs at my school. The only problem with that is that the closest things I've ever had to a relationship all ended in traumatizing train wrecks. A girl (My "first love") decided to tear my heart out on Christmas Eve and another girl decided to rip my heart out on the day of my grandfather's funeral. Those two events have caused me to be technically afraid to love. The girls I hit on nowadays are just girls I feel like hitting on. there's no emotion anymore because I already feel like they'd reject me on a very significant moment of my life.

Another problem I have are my insecurities. As a teenager I guess insecurities are natural when I was in 5th grade I had my first valentine. Sure I was happy she said yes, but the endless teasing my parents would do really made me shy away from being completely open with my family about relationships. I naturally don't want that kind of attention so I just kept my attempts at relationships very private. During my middle school years and high school years I experienced my first rejections and my first flakes. I decided to keep those social disasters secret so that my parents won't 1. Be disappointed and 2. add unneccessary attention and teasing to my life. My insecurities really show when day 2's come closer. I know their gonna flake me so I used to try and make my schedule work around them. Typical AFC stuff.

Now my final problem I have is the people I hang out with and the people I've number closed. My close friends I've known since 6th grade and they are complete video game nerd. They have no desire for a social life outside the little circle of friends they already have. They don't even have a desire for women. The people I do party with are extremely alpha and when they brag about it, I feel insecure, jealous, and extremely pissed off at them. One of my friends refers to me as his "best friend" because I'm apparently the only one he opens up to. But when he does he sounds like "So this girl was giving me a BJ" and "Dude, so many people are asking me to ask them to the dance. It's fucking annoying!" I can only dream of getting a BJ and not even in my wildest dreams could I get someone to go to a dance with me. The people I've number closed are so popular that the next people that I would consider gaming know the previous girl I've number closed. I'm a very well known person at my school not for being the life of the party, but because I fundraise for a charity by selling food to everyone at school. I guess I could use that as an opener. Since I'm well known only for having food, people have began to take interest when they learned that i could dance, play piano, and sing and when I start to hit on someone, everyone and their mothers know. So I really have to watch what I say before someone realizes that I could have said something I said to another girl.

To sum it all up, I am an insecure AFC with close friends that are either losers or complete douchebags that can number close a mojority of girls I talk to only to be flaked in the end. I'm entering the world of PUAs to shed this AFC persona and become Frostbyte. I join in hopes that you guys could help me master day game and text game.

P.S. The first time I spent the last few days studying these forums and used openers, negs, push-pulls, and the rest of the game to number close an HB7. We texted and established inside jokes leading up to me setting up a day 2. My douchebag friend that I mentioned up there ended up taking her out before I did (I shrugged it off because it was a group thing and my douchebag friend has a girlfriend) but she flaked me for the day 2 she had tomorrow. Every rejection is adding to my insecurities and I'm sick of it.

Your going to have to out game your friend that swooped in and snatched her up because the reason she flaked on your day two is because she replaced it with meeting up with your friend instead for theirs. So it may be best to learn how to disarm him first when you go into a group set together and show that you are much more exciting than him. Oh and keep your emotions on ice I've found that one major factor that motivates me to go after girls and keeping my feelings on ICE is to remember that they are all the same until they prove to you that they aren't and that leads to them vying for your approval.