Hello.

I am obviously an AFC. I will be blunt, I had to make the decision of either joining this site, some other similar site, or rejoining the Incel forum. I have no social circle, so there is no understanding friend I can speak to about my problems with the opposite sex. I will make a brief, yet succinct summary of my current state.

1. I'm 23 and I haven't been in a relationship, or had sex in 8 years.

2. I live in a small town, population: under 200. I can not move from here (thats always the first advice I recieve, to move that is), I have no ability to subsist on my own (I have no job, and I live on disability, although there is no physical component to my disability). In other words, I live with my mom. There are other more populated areas with tens of thousands of people living there close by.

3. I have no friends. I moved to this area 2 years ago, and I have not made a single friend. Of course, I'm not in school right now, but I may be soon.

4. I won't touch on this too long, because its old hat for you all I'm sure: I view myself as very unattractive. I've gained much weight in the past year, and I've never been an active person.

5. I have Asperger's syndrome. If you feel that advising such a person is either a fruitless effort, or something left to the better equipped, I can defer to that judgement.

6. I have had very little experience with women. Very. I've been WBAFC since I learned about interpersonal, romantic and/or sexual relationships. As such, my confidence is very low.

Thats all I'll post here, as I would only assume that the introduction threads are meant to be light traffic areas. I will touch on some of those points in other subforums.

I do not take pride in expounding such experiences, but at the very least, as I have learned from other forums, my ability to converse may prove useful for those other readers in similar situations that do not feel able to set out their thoughts in text like this.

Thank you for reading.

AmbivalentFC