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So i'm 15 (turning 16 soon) and I've never even kissed a girl so hopefully I can get help from the guys on this forum and give back advice on the way
Hey GermanBloodUnitedHeart and welcome to the forum!
Guys please refer to the SA JHB lair in the lair's section, it's
just so that all the people for SA can keep in touch in a single
thread. I'm trying to get a lair going for the city so try your
best to put your SA related topics in there. Shot gents!
Right. GermanBloodUnitedHeart, in all honesty man, I think you're a
bit of a minor in that stage for trying to get into the pickup scene
man, no offence. In this community, you're going to need to
out on a very regular basis, get into clubs and bars,
sarge on your own accord and practice in order
to move onto more difficult routines. Trust me
man, there is so much to learn from here
but if you can't get into a club or bar at this
stage... it's best you wait until you're old enough
to gain access to these kind places where all the best
girls hang out before even thinking about learning
pickup. This art is not easy and it isn't for the
weak. It gets you out of your shell more than
you can imagine and you need to push
yourself harder than anything in order
to do that. It can take months,
mainly YEARS to get this
right, and that's the easy
stuff.
I've been learning theory since 2008 and only officially
approaching from August last year. It takes alot of work, it aint easy

So many kids or teens getting into this think there is one aspect of them
they want to change or one goal they want to achieve, they don't know
it's a whole selection and variety of things they want to gain from
this without taking it into consent.
In other words bud, maybe it's best to wait until you're
old enough to hit the clubs and enter the bars before
practicing out in the real world.
In the meantime, read 'The Game', that book will shed
alot of light and give you great insight into the
community and life in this world.
Take it easy bud
- Chai