Yeah, I used to have it, then they changed what it was, now what I have isn't it, and what is it seems weird and confusing.

I was on the road to PUA heaven, and some things happened in my life, and now I feel like I'm in a worse state than I ever was before.

The track down the game that I have followed has lead me to live in my head, and not really engage or be in the moment.
What Adam Lyons would say too much focus on inner game, and no experience out there.

So now I'm back with approach anxiety, feeling like I am less expressive than ever, and lost for things to say, since I feel like I am kinda bored now that I can understand what is going on around me.

I'm here to start fresh, recalibrate my personality, become the hustler, lighten my disposition, speak more interestingly, learn some material, gain confidence, tone up, and get the life that I feel we all deserve.

At some point, I'm just going to have to go out there, and fail, fail, fail again until it doesn't effect me anymore.

Every journey has a beginning

Unless your are a natural u need to do this shit everyday.

If you get bored u need to do new stuff, just for the hell of it, to feel the buzz. Contrary to popular belief the persuit of actual sex does not make many guys actually sarge.

If u try to incorporate PUA principles in many parts of your life as possible it should help.

Its only when u are feeling fear are u gonna feel a buzz and learn. You can do an approach the boring way with low risk, but this can also make u lose interest after a while.

You are honest about AFC reversal. I have been there. If u r determined u can push through.

Thats the general advice. Look on the forum for popular questions.

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It's all back to basics, bud...

As Mystery says - you can't give a shit. You fail? So what. Caveman it anyhow! Why? Because while you're concerned how she'll think of you six weeks from now - she'll be fucking another caveman who didn't give a shit...

Sounds like you have game, but developed a conscience. It happens - I did it. Now, my "give a fuck" is broke all over again - and I'm slaying it in So Fla.

You guys sound spot on.

What happened was I picked up my last two girlfriends using game (and actually the one before that, though it was totally without knowing anything about game, I could just look back and see what I did right once I learnt), but they both saw me as a player, and whilst interested in me to begin with, I was constantly accused of flirting, and I'd be like "so what, I wouldn't ever do anything, I just like to be popular".

The truth is, to some extent, when an attractive girl drops her bitch shield to me, I do have game, some natural game, my energy increases, I become more funny, and fuck me dead I actually become genuinely interesting!
I'm in state.

I need to work out how to get in state much better I think, because now I feel guilty if I put it on because of the way my last two girls made me feel about the whole alpha gaming thing.

Does this sound right?

Gdog, there's no real right or wrong - there's only the avenues necessary to get to your goal.

As for me - I AM the game. I don't 'act' or put on a front. I've morphed into the guy that instantly thinks of angles, gambits, strategem, mindset and approach to ensure I close the target. That's who I am now. I don't plan for it, it just happened.

Self-discovery... it's the coolest.

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correct. self discovery is the best thing!

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lol great quote

Does the constant use of strategy ever take the fun out of the interaction?

I can imagine that if it gets like shooting fish in a barrel, it could loose it's appeal.

Kinda like when learning to play an instrument, it can take the magic out of a song when you learn to play it.