| Hi all,
Just wanted to drop by and introduce myself, I am new in this community and willing to learn much more about this lifestyle.
I am currently a Swedish guy living abroad, in Ireland, and working within a global IT company. My way here has been quite long and I have taken many detours to come to where I am today.
The last 5 months a weird nickname have turned up among my friends, "Bögmackan". Which, if I translate, basically means "Gaymackan", where "Mackan" is kind of a short form for my name. I don't know, is this something to play along with when out sarging, or should I just leave it out?
When I was younger I had big problems with even hanging out with girls, even in groups, together with my friends. I have to say, this is not the case any more. Today my closest friends are almost exclusively girls, and I have no problem talking to women I get to know trough other people. My issue is to approach girls on my own and to be the guy that is the center of attention. My confidence is, compared to when I was younger, very high and I usually get compliments from girls to dress neatly and stylish. I usually always wear a suit when going clubbing, or at least a shirt that draws attention to me when I enter a room, but still I can't maintain the attention and when I move further in to the room I am no longer interesting.
My other issue is that I'm kind of the Mr. nice guy to everyone, even people I barely have met. This though is changing as I am writing this, mainly because of my job and the need there to be demanding from my co-workers, and other people related to work.
So any advice on where to start is more then welcome and any guidance on what treads here in the forum to read is always appreciated.
Well anyway, thanks for your time whoever reads this. And to the people who might provide any feedback, again, this is highly appreciated.
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