Over the past year I have been getting braver and making small conversation with women (mainly bartenders and waitresses). Though its really simple small talk, it's been a huge step for me. 2 years ago I wouldn't say a single thing more than I would have to. Of course I know bartenders are prone to small talk with anyone, it was at least a step for me.

I would really like to learn how to flirt (obviously, thats why I joined here). I want to start with simple harmless flirting and let it grow into a real good talent that will take me all the way to the bedroom when I want it to.

I've always been shy and I have the problem of the "what if" questions in my head. I always predict the worst to happen, even though I realize that a lot of the thoughts/fears are irrational.

Other info= age: 26 and number of girlfriends: 2 (no, not at the same time, lol). What got me the 2 girlfriends I have had is that they asked me out. According to women that have hit on me, my friends girlfriends, and female coworkers/friends is that I am very good looking. I just have NO TALENT.