I'm 22 years old and want to start making some drastic changes in my life.

I'm a built, pretty good looking guy, but haven't had much in the way of females my whole life. Sure I've had plenty of make out encounters in college, and 2 lucky one night lays, but I refuse to settle for that.

I was drawn to the community once I read the game and realized that there could be a way to systematically haul in girls. But perhaps more importantly, I love the potential to enhance every area of my life through pua-ing. I want to bang girls left and right sure, but I also want to become a more refined person.

Perhaps one could say my situation is unique. I'm a good looking guy with a strange sort of "selective" charisma and a strong personality, it's just that I haven't really been able to put it together consistently. I get looks from girls everywhere I go, and I've even been whistled at once on campus (I'm by no means trying to boast, I believe humility is key to learning, for only a pathetic loser would get self fulfillment via forum chatting- i'm just trying to paint the picture).

My main issue is not necessarily approaching, but rather I lack the impetuous and skills necessary for the "meat and potatoes of conversation". My mid-game is god awful. Strangely enough however, there are rare, random times when it's on point. So that leads me to a few questions... is this a result of me being bad with establishing rapport? Is it my general mood that I need to constantly have elevated? Or perhaps do i just sometimes get lucky?

I feel like I'm trapped in a room within a mansion of a gigantic all girl orgy, with a a locked glass door that keeps by myself, enabling me to constantly be teased. I just need that one key.

Either way, sorry if this is a long post for an introduction, but I felt it was a great way to get acquainted. I look forward to becoming a part of the community. I hope that we may mutually learn and grow from each other.