HI guys,
Well i m 27 and i ve been single for almost 3 years now...the thing that bother me the most is the approach. this is probably the most common issue for everybody but still...i read some openers posted in the forum but for some reason when i repeat them in my head i see myself all cheesy and can not believe it would work... once i m introduced i feel very comfortable and become very active and funny...anyone have any idea how to break my own ice and get loose? i ll appreciate any tip...
P.S. If someone in Chicago looks for a wingman or wants to share experience i m ready to go sarging in the windy city
Thanks!

I would recommend finding the wing man. I wish I could help you, but I live in Washington DC, not Chicago.

I would also recommend following the 3 second rule. Most guys see an attractive woman, and try to figure out what to say. But the longer you wait, the more nervous you get. It's better to approach a woman–any woman–as soon as you can. She may not be that hot, but the more women you approach, eventually you'll find someone you're attracted to.

Drink some coffee to put you in a good, high-energy mood.

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Definitely find a wing. Go out, watch him open some sets and you'll see it work. Go and run the same line and your confidence will build.

thanks guys, i appreciate the tips

3 second rule, as stated above.

Try doing some situational openers, study natural game.
When in a club or such you don't need any reason to open, a simple "Hey, whats up?" is often enough.
Check out Gamblers stuff, such as forcing an IOI before opening. This is great, both for your confidence and the actual outcome.