Hey! I am 5'6" and average looking Asian Indian but lived in Michigan since I was 6. I have never been a shy person, but seem to always end up in the friend zone with girls.

My friend has been doing this for far longer than I have and here is what he had to say about my game, I would love it if you guys can give me tips on improving..

1. I have what he called "Bitch Butterflies" and I agree with him on that. When he approaches a group of girls and opens them I can go join the group and he will introduce me and I am golden. I will have the girls laughing, grabbing me, and trying to get close to me in a few minutes but I get sick at the thought of trying to open them myself.

2. A lot of my friends are the type that go to the bars find a table and sit there and drink all night. When they see me talking to girls they keep trying to bring me down! How can I find more guys that actually talk to girls and can help me get better?

3. Due to my friends from #2 I am actually considered a regular at the bar they go to, which is nice. The bouncers let me and whoever is with me cut the line/get in for free, the bartenders will serve me right when I walk up to the bar, greet me by name etc. And the waitresses always put there arm around me, talk to me for 15-20 minutes while they are working and flirt with me (this is most likely to get better tips but having a hot girl flirt with me helps me get into pickup mode) I know I can use this bar to my advantage..any tips on exactly how to do it?

4. Tips on being a wingman? My friend is great at approaching girls, I am good at keeping the conversation rolling. But we end up hitting on the same girls...

Have a lot more questions but would love to start with these!

Welcome!

On #4, figure out who will talk to who before you go in and open.
On #2, being a regular isn't bad but being a drunk at the bar on a regular basis is. If your friends try to bring you down, start to bring them up. Introduce them to girls and start getting them involved so they can see the benefits of what you do. It may be a hard decision but if they can't step up and be a good friend, then maybe you need new friends. Hey, you have us now so open up and let us in buddy!

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