Hey everyone i have read through the forums for awhile now and have just decided to Join. Ive read "the Game" and "The Mystery Method" (a couple of times) mainly i have natural game im funny out going blah blah, but need to tweek up FOR SURE. I just have trouble Meshing the steps TOGETHER and keeping the flow consistent. This shit is way fun especially when the anxiety is gone. But Defintaely just need some help on making it flow right. Pretty Much "What the fuck i just read For Dummies"

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proph3t

What is it that you believe is holding you back?
What do you think you are missing?

You are funny/outgoing? What do you do that is funny and outgoing? how do you make women feel? How do you believe women see you? Are you well groomed? Confident?

cheers

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Trajan
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im DEFINATELY confused on the actual step by step process, example what to say or do to build attraction....moving into comfort and creating it......seduction, slowly moving into kino escalation?......and then closing. I dont really have a good routine and get lost as hell going into it the right way and being routine...

I can always get a smile and a laugh and always being told im charming im not stupid or goofy funny, funny in a smartass/playful way. i go and definately display value i know EVERYONE when i go out to a venue or run into someone. I would guess girls fel comfortable around me i feel like i dont really know how to attract i feel like it goes straight to comfort. Im dress nicely button ups, nice jeans conservative almost business looking im in the army so i have a very well groomed appearance. i am very confident but possibly could be viewed as OVER confident.

thanks for the fast reply!

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proph3t

Thoughts

If you want to go through a step by step process you can learn to be good with women with the books you just mentioned. However, you also have to pay attention to how you learn. You must small chunk your knowledge. Go out and focus on opening. Once you can successfully open sets and engage women in conversation try using false time constraints, negs, and false disqualifiers. Then go into story telling, then isolation etc. My point being is you can't read those books and try to do everything they say at once. If you want to be unnatural and learn the routines the only way to do it is piece by piece.


It will work its just a bit of a slower process.

cheers
let me know if you want something that works faster.

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Trajan
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i have no trouble with opening, the way im positioning myself or any of those. i guess just more or less stories that create attraction DHV etc... i would love so info on maybe getting it down a little faster i saw your profile im gonna check your podcasts out for sure...



thanks man!

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