Hi all,

Some time ago i stumbled upon some books bout the game and one thing leading to another ended up here.

I'm a thirty something guy from Helsinki, Finland. For my life I've been moderately successful with girls even ended up getting laid with some pretty good babes. But lately I've been thinking all of this and realized it's more or less due to luck than anything else. So I've decided to get luck out of the equation and start learning this stuff.

Going through my life i've also noticed two antipatterns i keep repeating.

First is Oneitis. Somehow it seems i'm so deadly afraid of being alone that i tend to attach myself too heavily to girls i did lucky with.

Second is approach anxiety. I guess quite many guys here have experienced it heavily but i have to admit it has played a major part in just getting lucky.

Third is the so called nice guy syndrome. I end up trying to please the women (guess mainly because the fear of losing them) that i end up just pleasing them at the expense of my own needs wishes etc.

I guess i have many other hurdles to cross as well, but these do appear o be the biggest obstacles.

I've been thinking of some immediate goals to try to achieve one came into my mind.

My job is such that i change locations quite often. So It occurred to me that it would be nice to get some babes available where ever i'm working at the moment. This would bring a some practice material to me as the places change every couple of months and if getting successful at it, some variability to enjoy. As a bonus i'd start to get nice lunch time etc fun to relax with.

So I thought about it and noticed that at my current location there's a lobby girl I think i'd like to test. The girl is quite normal looking maybe a 6 or 7, a bit on the chubby side. But somehow something about her makes her sexually very desirable to me boink her to 7-8 score in my mind. So i thought she might be a good experimental project. What do you think, how should i open her? How should i proceed? I mean she's seen me steadily now for sometime already so i missed the first impression part.

Anyhow that's me shortly.