Like the above says, I have never tried it, or at least not to the effect some people have tried using this skill set. No scratch that, I guess I actually did try it out on the girl I was interested in and we ended up being together.

Fast forward two years later, and now I'm single and trying to go out and find someone new. Problem, is a lot of the things I learned have become a faint memory, I will be rereading the material, but I just don't seem as confident now. This in part has to do with me not being as in shape as I was at that time.

So anyways, I just recently met someone and we began talking in a group setting. Her body language seemed to suggest she's into me and what have you. I ended up asking her out on a date after our second meeting and she said yes.

Mind you everything is going well, I have her number and I'm just calling her up to to set something up at this point. While I was hitting her up I had no real intentions of hooking up with this chick it was just something casual. But since it kind of fell on my lap I changed my mind and ended up going for it. Unfortunately, because now I was actively looking for possibly more I became insanely nervous and began adding pressure on myself. I ended up calling her, and completely f*c*ed up. She then sends me a text about us going out, but that she saw this as hanging out and just having a platonic relationship with me.

I texted her back at this point, because I'm definitely screwing up on the phone. We set something up and go out. I do my thing and she's appears to be having fun, but at this point I'm down on myself a bit and am not reading things the way I was at the beginning. She constantly giggling, that much I do recall. So the date ends with a bye I'll see you around. And I'm not really sure where I stand.

Afterwards she did send me a line, saying she can tell I have a kind heart. She also said she had fun with me. During our date she mentioned her being in a long relationship blah blah blah and that she hates men now. Where before it seem she was definitely inclined to hook up with me. So my question gents, is this game over?

Thanks, new guy screwing up!

Stop focusing on the one girl. It should be her chasing you and you being the one in the drivers standards. It's about does she meet your standards not the other way around. Go out and approach as many hot girls as you can, no matter how the interaction goes with any of them you will feel better knowing that the opportunites are out there whenever you want them and you don't have to take shit from just one girl in particular. Think like a player not a chump