Sup dudes,
Quick back story.... broke up with the ex bout 2 weeks ago after nearly 3 years together. No bad blood on either side, we were both just moving in different directions and I'd like to think I handled it like a man. It did hurt a lot though and probably me more than her. Over the past 2 weeks I've completely cut her, and anything that would remind me of her, out of my life and I'm ready to move on.
Shortly after the break up I read The Game out of curiosity. From what I've read I would say there are things I like and don't like about the pua thing but I think there are some positives to get from it all so here I am.
What I want is a ton of new friends, particularly female and also to have my way with a bunch of HB's. I also want to skyrocket my confidence and I think having both of these things will help that.
I go to a small college in a small town in Ireland. Monday I came up with a genius plan that didn't really work out, but at least I talked to a few hot women ha.
I'm a film student and I have a project coming up soon for a social documentary. So I got a pen and pad and went up to women (on my own) in the college library and asked if they could answer a few questions for research. I just came up with sh*t I thought would strike up a convo. Here's the q's and typical response. Asked about 10 hot girls.
Do you think you'll stay in Ireland after college or leave? (Leave for Oz)
Do you think it's easier for men or women to find a job? (A mix)
Relationship status? (All said have bf
)
Do you think you'll marry an Irish man one day? (probably)
Would you like to be in the documentary (All said no, afraid of camera mostly)
I then wrote my facebook on a piece of paper and handed it to them saying if they or any of their friends are interested in the film to let me know. (No friend requests
)
It was a...weird... experience to say the least but I learned from it. I felt like they could smell that I was up to something, like they were being tricked ya know? I also learned that they were more open to talk when alone and that maybe this whole beauty thing is just an illusion.
I want to talk to lots of women, it's kind of addictive. I feel like just going up to somebody and saying, "hello, how is your day going?" is an automatic chat up though and I don't want to become known as that creepy guy because this is a small town.
I have one big thing holding me back at the minute from realizing my full potential. I'm 25 and got a tattoo on my hand when I was 18. I know right? I've been getting it removed over the last year or 2 and though it is fading there is some scarring and discolouration and it just looks ugly at the minute. Nobody really knows I have it. I keep it hidden from view with my sleeve and as a consequence can't really wear a shirt, which sucks.
Sh*t I've waffled on for too long now, but that's me. Happy to be here.
I need a mission over the next few weeks. I want to get as many women in my life as possible without being desperate or creepy. Thoughts?
CHAT