Hi there

I've recently discovered this and was instantly fascinated. Im 19, live in Southampton UK, and am a student. I've never really had a problem talking to girls but I've always been a little shy and unsure of myself, though I've recently made huge progress in this. I've had sex loads of times but with only one girl as we were in a two year relationship. Consequently I have almost no experience pulling a girl in clubs and that's why I need help.

In the past couple of weeks I've tried a few techniques I picked up here and everything seems to be going fairly well. But there is a few situations I would like help with.

In my first night out back at uni I joined multiple groups and was doing well and had the interest in a girl who was easily a 9. However her friend then led them back inside the club. I decided to try and place myself as the prize and said I might see them later.

About half an hour later I saw her inside and she beaconed me over, I joined her, her friend and her friends boyfriend who was overly protective of any other guy in the group. I ignored the girls and turned my attention to him to get him on my side, after all I wasn't even after his girl. I managed to make him more comfortable but he seemed set on being miserable so I turned my attention back to the prize. However at this point it was too loud to properly talk to her. Time passed and she seemed quiet happy in the club pretty much ignoring me. I got the occasional smile but nothing else. I left again telling her I was meeting a friend outside in the smoking area.

I came back again and now a group of guys had noticed her and were obviously trying to pull her. Dancing close to her, etc... but she ignored them and was clearly not interested. However they didn't back down which resulted in them acting as a barrier between me and her. I then gave up and joined a group of friends who were at the club.

Any advice on this would be hugely helpful.

thanks in advance

Jontay