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PostPosted: Mon Jan 09, 2012 2:13 pm 
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I am, as Style would put it, a natural.
I've been able to pick up girls for years and find it relatively frequent that I'm able to build rapport and kiss close.

The problem is; I'm never sure how I do it. It comes completely by surprise when she becomes interested, and I'm unable to replicate the same pattern on a similar set.

After reading "The Game" I recognised tactics such as neg hitting and push and pull, that I'd been executing regularly, but had never realised these were proven facts of success in the community.

My second problem, is that around AMOG's, my naturally outgoing personality dissipates and I become filled with shyness and anxiety. I have the reverse problem to many AFC's, I'm completely comfortable around girls, but as soon as another guy enters the set, I freeze.

I'm 16, infinitely mature for my age, a model, academic and sportsman - looking for the tips and practice necessary to elevate my choice in women and become more comfortable around alpha male guys.

Awesomesaur~


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 09, 2012 9:39 pm 
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I am, as Style would put it, a natural.
I've been able to pick up girls for years and find it relatively frequent that I'm able to build rapport and kiss close.

The problem is; I'm never sure how I do it. It comes completely by surprise when she becomes interested, and I'm unable to replicate the same pattern on a similar set.

After reading "The Game" I recognised tactics such as neg hitting and push and pull, that I'd been executing regularly, but had never realised these were proven facts of success in the community.

My second problem, is that around AMOG's, my naturally outgoing personality dissipates and I become filled with shyness and anxiety. I have the reverse problem to many AFC's, I'm completely comfortable around girls, but as soon as another guy enters the set, I freeze.

I'm 16, infinitely mature for my age, a model, academic and sportsman - looking for the tips and practice necessary to elevate my choice in women and become more comfortable around alpha male guys.

Awesomesaur~
Hey, I completely understand what you man. I'm a natural as well, the only thing is that you don't have the experience to realize what are you doing good or what you are doing wrong. You just need experience so go out and get it and about freezing when another guy shows up that means you probably grew up surrounded by women, you don't have to see him as a threat if you have more experience than him use that at your advantage, engage him into the conversation and he might become your future wingman.

Remember something, there is nothing wrong with getting rejected, the only thing worse than getting rejected is not trying

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