Hi all, great to have found this resource. I'm coming from Belfast, Northern Ireland, 35 years old, keep myself in shape, some say I'm attractive... well yea that's why I'm here! I just don't "feel" it like I should and tend to fall at some point when going for anything other than a one night stand.

I generally don't have a problem picking up attractive girls in their early/mid 20's and find it pretty easy picking girls up late 20's early 30's, sometimes I fail badly but generally I'm ok. I'm quite a confident (most times), funny, and generally "odd" character. Been around, did a lot of things but have been told I can be hard work.

I love Thaiboxing and writing music. I'm not driven by $$$. I just want to feel good with myself, be the best person I can be for myself and for others.

Pick up is not my strong point after really looking at the type of girls I pick up and the kind of relationships I have had. Generally nothing to be too proud of.

Anyway, hopefully I'll learn more about myself here.