So im trezz,single dad and loving it.Been having this on-off thing with a perfect 10 for a while now,shes an Alpha female Coquette,shes trying very hard for me to chase her again and even though i wanna keep her close if we're gonna be in a relationship its gotta be on my terms,So far all the tried and true strategies have worked for me however i think im stuck because shes getting on my nerves,and her coquetteishness is making her come off as a freak.Ive high lighted this to her and done some negging but it doesnt seem to be getting her to submit as i want her to.Case in point she wants to come over today but plays games.Heres how the sms text history goes:-

Message received 25/12/2011 10:03
Will u b home alone tonight or will your son be with u?

Message sent 25/12/2011 10:04
I want him to be with me.

Message received 25/12/2011 10:05
Ok

Message received 25/12/2011 12:33
Wat u doin today then?

Message sent 25/12/2011 12:34
In bed.

Message received 25/12/2011 12:35
Where is your son?

Message sent 25/12/2011 12:36
@ his mums he has visitors.

Message received 25/12/2011 12:37
Wat time is she bringing him to u? If he wasn't home with u tonight I would come stayover.

Message received 25/12/2011 12:41


Message sent 25/12/2011 12:43
That would be nice,im sure he's gonna wear himself out early.

Message received 25/12/2011 12:46
Wat wud b nice? So wen ru seeing him?

Message received 25/12/2011 12:47
U don't seem to fussed about seeing me and u never ever call me for wateva reason?

Message sent 25/12/2011 12:49
To see u knuckle head,hes coming over after his mum gives him lunch.

Message received 25/12/2011 12:51
If she comes and take him from u at 6.30pm I will come round but I will leave it upto u Love u and miss u so much

Message received 25/12/2011 13:04
So will u get her to pick him back up?

Message sent 25/12/2011 13:08
I'll let you know.i bought him a big old school legos,and i want to play with him,hes a bit upset that i dont have a tree or decorations up tho,lol he said daddy why is there no christmas at your house? Lol

Message received 25/12/2011 13:43
Why ru. so against calling me? I thought u loved me but u limit your contact?:(
Message sent 25/12/2011 13:45

Not true,ive texted u teice on wednesday and you were not responding,thursday and friday as well and you did not respond.

Message sent 25/12/2011 13:46
Im gonna have a shower and make myself some food.ta .x

Message received 25/12/2011 13:46
Because I'm waiting for you to actually make an effort and call me but u don't?

Message sent 25/12/2011 13:48
I am not satisfied with just calling you,i want you to come over,its not like you live in australia.and i asked u to come round last night.

Message sent 25/12/2011 13:49
Im gonna take care of myself,text u in a bit.

Message received 25/12/2011 13:52
Uv changed so much ,u just don't seem to care anymore ur like a different person:(
Message sent 25/12/2011 14:22
Thats couldnt be more the opposite.i love u more than when we first started rolling together.

Message sent 25/12/2011 14:22
I miss u :(xxx

Message received 25/12/2011 14:23
So u need to start calling me and make an effort don't u?

Message sent 25/12/2011 14:24
You can encourage me by coming round :p xxx

Message received 25/12/2011 14:24
I will if your son isnt there

Message received 25/12/2011 14:42
Ru going to arrange for him to be taken home???

Message received 25/12/2011 15:01
Urmm hello?????

Message sent 25/12/2011 15:48
Hi you alright sorry hes at mine now.

Message received 25/12/2011 15:49
So his staying over?

Message received 25/12/2011 15:54
Lol u avoiding da question

Message sent 25/12/2011 16:01
He is staying over tonight you are more than welcome to come over,if you like,we would both like to see you,more than likely he will be asleep very early because he has had a very Active day so far.

Message received 25/12/2011 16:01
Ok I will think about it

Message sent 25/12/2011 16:02
Fair enough.

Message sent 25/12/2011 16:29
As it turns out his mum is coming round to pick him up @ 5 as he is having more visitors at her house then and his mum insisted on keeping him tonight.

Message sent 25/12/2011 16:30
He is also excited to see these visitors hes having as the kids are his age.

Message received 25/12/2011 16:34
Who r all these people going round her house and y the fuck is she taking him away from u after 2hours on Xmas day???? Wat a fucked up bitch and u don't even say nothing to her???? U spend 2hours with ur son on xmas day,wow!!!! U shud say to her she's a fucking selfish bitch.and there u were saying she's so nice lol

Message sent 25/12/2011 16:38
I really dont mind,and had he not wanted to go he would have stayed with me also hes being a bit stroppy as hes winding down and tired now and its nearing his dinner time,he'll be asleep soon.

Message sent 25/12/2011 16:43
She did ask,and to be fair rhys has been jumping all over my leg as well,had that not been a factor as well it may have been different but its cool.

Message received 25/12/2011 16:43
Ok

Message received 25/12/2011 16:45
I bet she didn't ask I bet she said I'm picking him up at 5pm.that ain't asking.she always makes plans and assumes ul go along with it.she's controlling

Message sent 25/12/2011 16:45
No it was nothing like that.

Message received 25/12/2011 16:48
Ok well have a nice eve.


Message sent 25/12/2011 16:49
Thank you.xxx

Message sent 25/12/2011 16:49
I take it ur not coming,.

Message received 25/12/2011 16:51
I'm on my way home now,looking forward to a bath.u never invited me round and u said rhys was there and havnt asked me since

Message sent 25/12/2011 16:56
I did say it would be nice to have you round,and you said you would think about it.as the situation unfolded in your favor, its a bit implied isnt it.never the less would you like to come round? If not say now so i can go upstairs and get in my bed and put a movie on.

Message received 25/12/2011 16:58
I will think about it

Message sent 25/12/2011 16:58
Goodnight then.xxx

Message received 25/12/2011 18:22
Wow even Xmas day u wana cause arguements!!!! Pathetic. U accuse me of playing games? Uv text me saying goodnight but uv just said ur. not sleeping???? Yea dat really makes sense doesn't it! Ur playing games not me

Message sent 25/12/2011 18:28
You started off the day saying you would come round if my son stayed at his mums and i said YOU are more than welcome to come round,what did you have to think about if the situation unfolded in your favor?its obviously implied you were coming not so? Or are you a bit slow?Neverthe less i cant be asked to play these games with you since ur going back on the fact that you initially said that you were coming round if my son was at his mums,so now hes at his mums you need to ''think about it''.when you behave like that its best i go to sleep.

Message sent 25/12/2011 18:29
When you sort your head out let me know xxxx

Message sent 25/12/2011 18:30
This is why i dont like calling you because by texting i have evidence of the things you say.

Message received 25/12/2011 18:33
So y did u say goodnight?

Message sent 25/12/2011 18:38
I have other things to occupy my evening other than wait for you to decide to go back on your own words or decide what ur doing,its not that hard a decision its either ur coming or not and if you cant decide what u doing within 15 mins then ive got other things to do with my evening.

Message received 25/12/2011 18:38
Cool

Message sent 25/12/2011 18:39
Exactly,goodnight then.

Message received 25/12/2011 18:39
:'(
Message sent 25/12/2011 18:41
I said to you early today it would be nice to see you what more invitation do you need?anyway stay home and cry and play with your cats goodnight

Message received 25/12/2011 18:42
Wow ur becoming evil in ur words again.how long did your niceness last?

Message sent 25/12/2011 18:43
Nobody likes their head done in.

Message sent 25/12/2011 18:44
Im going to watch a movie now.ta xx

Message received 25/12/2011 18:44
Wateva.ur a.nasty person

Message received 25/12/2011 18:44
I'm going to sleep

Message sent 25/12/2011 18:44
Thats ur opinion.

Message sent 25/12/2011 18:45
Im putting my fone on silent now.have a nice sleep goodnight.xxx

Message sent 25/12/2011 19:35
Do you have any explanation for your behavior today?and you love me...ha!!! Stop playing these games with me its not going to work i keep telling you that buts its lke ur not convinced im on to you.

Message sent 25/12/2011 19:38
Seriously its making you look bad now stop it.

excerpt from todays sms text history,Any thoughts or tips on strategy to get her to stop acting like an idiot will be appreciated guys.

She obviously wants more of your attention then your willing to give. This seems fine because your standofishness has worked to increase your attraction in the past.

I don't really see any problem with your frame as its alpha and consistent, but I do see weakness In you continuing to discuss the same issue in 18 different incarnations.

I would state my point once or twice then give her an alternate option, this allows you to keep the frame, but prevents you from the habit of this incessant back and forth which is neither alpha nor attractive. But then again some people are addicted to drama so that may be part of her attraction to you and maybe vice-a-versa.

Detox is right on. You should avoid talking about the same issues over and over, and move to something different with this girl. Take charge, and make her live in your world, not her little Avatar world.

A perfect 10 is great because she is a perfect 10, but they are only looks. Think of her as a container of Pringles. They are great for awhile, but once you eat all of the chips, your left with a shiny, albeit slim container. The personality from her seems to not be what you are looking for, and the time you're spending on her could be spent on another 10 that carries a great pair of tits, but no drama to go with them.

You have invested some time in her, but it seems like your best option is to let her sit idle for a bit. Avoid her like you'd avoid a co-workers gas. Let the air clear, and then randomly send her a link to a funny video you saw, or something like that to open up the lines of communications.

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