| Hello!
I'm from the UK, 20-ish and currently zero experience with women.
I've never kissed a girl (except one which I don't count, she was drunk, felt sorry for me, and was very awkward after to see her about my student halls) - never got any further.
I used to hang around with the less-than-cool kids at school which severely merc'd my chances with women, since we never practised. Been to uni for a few years but dropped out two years ago due to confidence issues. Suffice to say, I'm okay now, dropped my old friends and now I tend to hang around with some old uni friends, who happened to be the coolest guys in class...
I planned to "sponge" off their coolness to try and get laid, but I am just too shy. I had a few opportunities too, some HB8 leaning over me pressing her breasts against my back, she even started a conversation which I barely limped through, I didn't care if she was easy. My "friend" however started acted fucked up towards me since he was after her as well (the guy is a fucking magnet but he's also childish), and I just made the stupid excuse that I didn't want to upset my friend and didn't follow up.
Pretty much my game has been focused on not trying to fuck up - thinking of things to say, confident body posture, voice etc - I do this even with my friends, which is quite draining after a while. I've read "The Game", lots of stuff from Adam Lyons, Gambler, David de Angelo etc, female psychology and sexuality (I actually think I would be a fucking beast in the sack, just never had the chance to prove it). I've never been sure about my looks, people have told me I'm a good-looking guy, but I don't see it at times. However I know that looks aren't everything, your clothes, body language, frame of mind is more important. I find it really hard to "let loose" which means I come off as aloof even in relaxed situations.
So if anyone could consider all this and point me in the right direction!
Cheers
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