Hi there! Im actually a lesbian and I have been cruising your site for months. Its out of this world. I have learned a lot. I think I have oneitis. There is this girl that is very aggressive and flirts, etc. I am very attracted to her. We lost touch for five months because of differences. I contacted her and she said she invited me over for dinner three times last week, hung out. Had a great time. She had mentioned that that ws a good week cuz she has a special sum1. So I was prepared to back off, but she just kept texting and getting me involved in her life. She denied that this woman was her gf, said she was not in love with her, etc. I told her that was disrespectful as she was flirting profusely with me. Sunday I text her and she is distant, been distant all week. I basically have frozen her out. I told her last night to come by as I was out and would be home shortly. She text me and said she and her lady were just getting home and her lady had to get up early. I was shocked. I did not know they were sleeping together. That hurts. She says she has not slept with her, I dont believe her. Anyway, in response to her text I responded with right on, whatever. Then I get these texts from her saying dont say whatever. Then a string of texts giving me shit about going out. She kept texting. I missed the texts which is good, but then finally answered her. I told her I had to eat lol. She wanted me to come up to her bar the night before and I declined. So when I finally text we have a long conversation, but not really about anything, just playing around. She mentioned her wifey and how odd that was, so I have my confirmation she really is dating her and she was definitely giving me the cold shoulder but I know the gf (which she says is not) left and she was baraging me with texts. Okay this is where I need help please. I kept texting and probably should not have? I mentioned I missed her kitty kat and when was I going to play her xbox again, she did not answer. I should not have done that I know. What now? Should I text, freeze? Please help? This is my first post. Thank you for any input. I feel as if I made things worse, but she defintely got perked up when I told her I was out.