Hey! 20 year old student from London here. I'm a typical AFC looking to work through my game. Going through the few PUA texts and methods has really made me look at social dynamics in a new light and made me consider the possibility that there might be hope left! Some of the technique mentioned in what I've read I realise I was using inadvertently but I've only managed to to kiss close in my limited experience thus far. Anything further than that I'm yet to get to grips with. What I want more from the art is to learn to read social situations so I can ad lib successfully and take every situation and girl as they come rather than employ learned behaviour.

I'm going to work through this earnestly, particularly my innergame. I feel like I could face the situations which have given me grief and anxiety before if I can get myself in the right headspace. It'd be cool to take a journey and work through what may be similar issues with someone in the same mindset/situation as me, if anyone wants to exchange off and on PMs?

It'd also be great if anyone can point me in the right initial direction with regards to anything that I've talked about. Looking forward to being part of the community!

Hello there and welcome This is Francesco, 20 years old from Italy. I've been reading about this stuff for a couple of weeks now, so I'd say I'm a starter as you are.

The very first thing that I started to do is working every single moment on my inner game, you must start thinking in a positive way and believe in yourself. For example always think that you are the alpha male of whatever context you are in and whenever you see a girl that you like, simply start thinking that you can have her.
Doing this will eventually affect also your outer game, you will slowly change some of your behaviours and you will be more self confident, and other people will notice it as well

The second step is your outer game : dress nicely, fix your hair if needed, always use deodorants, etc. An important thing is to pay attention to your posture too!

Also start reading about IOIs, basic body language and stuff like that, it's very helpful.

One thing which really amazed me that you can do just walking around the street is eye contact. I used to look at the ground while walking, i didn't really think about it. Now i just walk with my head up, looking at people's face and smiling a little bit if i like them Trust me, it is worth a try.

Anyway if you want to exchange some PMs I'm here

cheers