Hi people,

I just registered and look forward to becoming a part of your community. I'm looking for some guidance and advice, as well as potential friends, mentors, wings, you name it.

I consider myself somewhere in between RAFC'ness and beginning PUA. I'll explain why. I'm not afraid of women, or put them on pedestals or any other extreme AFC traits. However I'm also not very congruent, confident and consistent throughout my game, from opening to close. I've just gotten out of a LTR, everything was fine all the way through, but when I left to travel for a couple of months I turned AFC with a helping of one-itis on my GF, which led her to break things off. Quite understandably in retrospect. I've beaten myself up about it for a while, and am now ready to get back on the wagon.

While I don't profess to be an expert, I generally don't have trouble opening ('Hi!' works wonders for me) but have some trouble getting in and through the 'Comfort' stages and closing. This means I can meet a lot of women in a night and have a nice time with them, but not often 'get' anywhere. I'll get phone numbers and the occasional kiss, but nothing else.

I've got nothing canned, I always just wing it and be my engaging, funny self. This works great for openers and fluff conversation, I've got a couple of great stories and am reasonably quick witted but as I said I need some help on the follow-through. I hope that makes sense.

I'm currently travelling and will be in San Jose (costa rica), Santa marta (Colombia), Medellin (Colombia), Bogota (Colombia), London and Bristol in the near future. I'm from Holland originally so I'll obviously be there as well from february and onwards. If you're in or near any of these cities it'd be great to meet up, share ideas and wing/sarge/have fun at some nights out.

Cheers,
DonLorenzo