Hello all

In general terms, I consider myself to be a bit of a serial monogamist. Be that as it may, I find myself in slightly different situation and I had an absolute devil of a time trying to find some kind of female equivalent forum for this sort of business. So, here I am, hoping that you guys will be friendly enough to help a girl out.

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Cheers,

Alice

Make-up?

Crappy colums in the Cosmo?

I have no idea beyond that...

LOL all women's magazines have been running the same articles since 1995 I'm pretty sure...or possibly the beginning of time. I'd rather talk to real people.

It's surprisingly difficult for a woman to get seduction advice instead of how-to-get-into-a-relationship advice. Granted, as a woman it is not too hard to bag a guy if I want him (and he's single), but right now I'm playing at a level that requires real strategy, not just f___-me pumps.

Why?

Because this guy and I are playing the game with each other. Openly, and on purpose. Which means that the usual bag of tricks is nothing but a warm-up exercise...it's like playing poker with someone that knows all of your tells. It's hot, but it's a serious challenge.

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Alice

I hated when my ex would read Cosmo, and then mention things about our relationship because Cosmo said this/that....Everytime she'd get one, I'd read some of it too...and just can't believe that so many women believe everything in those types of magazines. Alot of the stuff is just bullshit...

Anyway, I'm not really sure I understand your question, Ijust wanted to give my opinion hahah I'm new here, so I don't know anyone, but I think it'd be cool to have some women in here as well.

Alright then.....

I think you should be up to speed with reframing, hot/cold technique, DHV's and negging right?
If not read up on it

Also I'd like to introduce some sales techniques I learned in college (Psychology):
- Low Ball - The Reciprocity Rule

-Foot in the door technique -Shared identity


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@motown: Cosmo has always been utter schlock. Don't fret about answering a question...I haven't asked one quite yet. Just introducing myself.

@Olivier: Thanks. I can't close it for a couple of weeks because I live out of town (I'm in town at least once a month and will be for several weeks over the holidays). I mean, the whole thing is as inevitable as gravity, I just need to keep him entertained by the idea until I can get around to nailing him.

I've read up a bit about the lingo you guys use around here

shared identity - check
negging - check
DHV - mmm thinking about it, but it has to be done carefully because we have a metric f*ckton of mutual friends.
hot/cold - timing is crucial, but yes.
reframing - humm. I shall ponder this one.
foot in the door - LOL he's trying to foot-in-the-door ME at the moment.

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Alice

Honestly though, I don't think you need anything like that. Guys rarely give fake IOI's.....so if he is showing any interest at all and is single he's DTF.
If thats what you want ofcourse, if you want a relationship its a bit of an other story.

Is he going to do it? Oh yea, he is.

But we both suffer from chronic boredom...I plan on getting my freak on with this dude, and that is just going to require more than one session. Not a relationship, God no, but I wouldn't mind maintaining him for a little while as a f*ckbuddy.

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Cheers,

Alice