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Hey guys,
I've finally taken the first step of hopefully a long & successful journey!
About me...my name is Jason, I'm 32 years of age from Auckland, New Zealand & at present I have almost zero game.
I've had limited success with women in the past, had 3 proper girlfriends in my lifetime & although I've had quite a few one night stands & hooked ups due to the travelling ive done only a couple of them have been of any quality. I have no technique at all to picking up girls, It used to be just get drunk & hope for the best & the majority of the time it was not the best.
The last 3 years have been quite bad for me socially, I've retreated into my shell & am a bit of a loner & introverted, where as I use to go out every weekend when I was younger. I havent got laid in over 2 years & havent had a girlfriend for over 6 years.
Things have got to change & I hope being part of this group will inspire me to step out of my shell & break through these bullshit barriers ive put up. I'll need your help!
I've been getting hypnotised lately which has helped calm my negative mind down & is giving me some belief in myself, the next steps Im taking are to train my voice to be a more powerful tool & changing my unsupportive beliefs through NLP which I have some knowledge of & then its all the way PUA training!
I think I have the right plan & will use this forum to guide me but what would be helpful is if there are any PUA's in Auckland that would like to take me out sometime & show me how its done as I dont have anyone I could sarge & train with. message me if you could help.
Im planning for about December is when I will be going out & meeting girls, I got to clear some debt & get some inner game going first. Hope this post isnt too long
P.S- The NZ rugby team just won the world cup last night-SENSATIONAL
Hey Jason, welcome to the forum. Here you'll find great help and we'll try to guide you as much as possible.
I see that you have a pretty solid gameplan, but let me give you a quick quote I heard recently:
"Don't be the man who sits next to a fire and says 'give me heat, and i'll give you wood'".
You want to learn how to 'attract' women before you even try getting women. In theory is a perfect plan, but in reality it may not work. A lot of aspiring PUAs fail because of the fact that they want to practice once they feel they're ready, when in reality they should practice from day one.
Do me a favor. Go out there today, and find the most beautiful girl and just say "hi". Then walk away. Do not stop and try to talk to her. Just say HI. See what happens...
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Do not become a "text-book" PUA. I see it coming in your case, so beware.
In any case, good luck man and congrats on the rugby championship.
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