I'll make this brief.

I read the game a couple of years ago (and some other pua books, signed up here but only ever really lurked signed on a couple of times) and kinda started to get into it. I wasn't actively pursuing every girl I saw but if there were natural situations came up like bumping into someone at a bar, hair dressers, yoga, waiting in line for something I would at lease make some kind of move. Then got a gf (not through game just a friend of a friend deal). While later we broke up. I wasn't heartbroken or anything like that but I lost my job a month later and things just start to slip for a couple of months. Gained wait, lost motivation, stopped caring. Mild depression really.

Decided to pull myself together.

I got into good shape, good haircut, better clothes, started reading more, listening to lectures, meditation, training BJJ and kickboxing, kettlebells, completely changed my diet etc. Just trying to self improve every aspect of my life. Be the best person I could be. I'm by no means where I want to be with this stuff but I am getting closer! This stuff was going well and things started to improve except one thing. The girls. I waited and waited for it to fall into place but it never really clicked.

Then I got offered a job and I moved to Amsterdam 2 months ago and I've met a few girls. Got with 1 a few times had a few fun dates like the park, coffee shops, ice cream, weird sex its been going well. I will hopefully be getting with another girl I work with before the end of next week as well. I fly home to Newcastle at the end of the week unfortunately the company I'm working for aren't doing great and they cant afford to keep me here. So I'm moving back home with-out a job!!!

But things do still feel on the up! Hopefully the lack of job is just temporary and I'll be back on my feet properly by xmas. I can still train and look after myself, so in-between that and looking for jobs I should work on the thing thats holding me back! meeting, dating and to be honest fucking girls! I've got very little game. I do ok/well with "friend-of-friends" people I'm introduced too that type of thing. I know I can cause attraction with women in these types of situation. What I need to do now is to get over approach anxiety, start meeting new girls, strangers, and learning those skills and thats what brought me back here. I'm going to dive in head first this time, wish me luck!

P.S. Also if there's anyone in the North East, UK that would a like to try out a wingman/ teacher/ pupil type deal let me know, that would be perfect for me watching an experienced PUA work and being able to get tips as I go.

Peace,

Jack