That got you interested in a different style didn't it.. Yeah, that's the kind of spontaneous interest I DON'T promote in bars and clubs.. 19, mad on sports/ fitness.. ran a marathon a couple weeks back, seem to keep myself in good working order and used to think that'd be a magnet unresistable.. guess not. Not built, not massively tall but the weird thing is I can talk to girls I have that second step confidence, but the opener is the one that kills me.. I have a quick mind when i stay positive, but when negative comes in it's a struggle to even look up. Just wondered for examples, what openers for groups could i use ?

Cheers, grafter92.

"Hey guys, you look like fun...my name is ____" (direct opener)
"Hey guys, I was a bit intimidated to come say hi, but then I realized you guys are normal...(big smile) my name is____" (direct opener)

More openers: http://www.bosproject.com/pua-openers.php?tid=sponge

I'd suggest to work on your inner game too: http://www.bosproject.com/more-confiden ... tid=sponge

And this could help you practice: http://www.bosproject.com/joinfree.php?tid=sponge

Hope it helps

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cheers for that.. I was reading some before, and noticed a good process goal strategy to build confidence in a way of talking to 5 strangers a day.. I think that would help because although i can flow a conversation as i said, opening confidence and knowledge is kinda shitty..

Thanks 'bansario'