Hi I am new to the site. I have had a mentor a few years back. Recently I am a bit rusty in the whole game but I am ready to dive back into it.

Here is my current situation.

I was dating this 18 year old for a month. I am 28 fyi. One night she had sex with this dude, not quite a friend but I know him. I confronted her and she confessed. I told her that we could still be more then friends because I liked the sex. I told her I just lost some trust and respect for you. I still want sex from her a couple times a week though and I she is happy to give it. I feel in charge of the situation and sex now is great between us she does everything I want. There is no specific real problem right now except for a few things I notice.

I think I have some chodie qualities, I did over invest in her because I have been out of the game so long. She does not care as much about me as I felt I did care about her once because she cheated on me once. I realize that I have to do some core framing because I show women that I am this relationship guy. When inside I would rather be this player. The thing is she was more of a convenience thing. Now that I am aware of my total lack of recent game I am having sticking points in terms of closing another women or girl. I feel I come off needy. I know its silly because I have been through a divorce and all that. The thing is I am attractive enough. Maybe someone could post some good things to say to women that are interested in me. Or post some things I should be thinking when going about looking for a girl. Ether way it is just good to feel like I am thinking about these things again.

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