so recently i've been talking to this girl a lot. i've started to like her but she's dating one of my best friends. i can't do anything with her at least until i get my license (16 yr old btw) which is next month. i've been working out a lot getting into shape (sorta chubby - almost lost all weight tho) and i will be by the time i can drive. we talk every few nights on aim but it's always me starting the conversations. sometimes she doesnt respond for a little while too and it can get frustrating. i cant break her up with her boyfriend, even tho i can, because she's a hb10 (maybe hb9 - still really fucking hot) and all the guys in her grade are going after her. but it's also risky having her with her bf because they may have sex and i want her to be a virgin if we do anything (dont wanna lose it to a girl who's not one). what can i do to make her start conversations with me more and also be more active in them? thx

1) Stop desiring your best friend's girlfriend
2) Understand that she has a boyfriend and that she may not be interested in you (even if she talks to you)
3) If she doesn't respond to you is because she may be talking to her boyfriend, who happens to be your friend. Why would this bother you?!
4) Why would you want to loose your virginity to a virgin? This is the 21st century. Nobody is going to wait a virgin just for you. Also, if she has a boyfriend, chances are she's already having sex (or at least oral sex).
5) Do not try to "break" your friend's relationship. It's immature, mean, and you wouldn't like it if something like that happened to you.

I don't want to be mean, but maybe you should reconsider a bit getting into PUA at your age. There are many responsibilities that come with learning how to "manipulate" people though PUA material.

Read this: http://bosproject.com/blog/are-you-too- ... up-artist/

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They haven't had sex. furthest i think is bj.

I don't desire his "girlfriend", I desire her, if you understand that. I have since well b4 they were dating. It was just recently I decided to do something about it.

She doesn't respond mainly because they video chat and are always fighting. Not a healthy relationship I may add.

I would wait for them to break up, I just want to lay some groundwork some that I'm there when she opens up. I helped them get back together once, if I wanted to ruin their relationship I could have. I'm not a douche bag tho.

And I have been manipulating people for years. I just am too emotional with this girl to think straight.

hey, i have been in a similar position before, but there are a few problems here.

1: you need to get over her. you are clearly too emotional for her to act as a high value guy, and if all the guys in her grade go for her, then a high value guy is exactly what you need to be.

2: stop talking to her. if you talk to her while she has a boyfriend, she will view you as a friend, seeing as she already has her man. If she asked you for relationship advice, tell her something along the lines of "you're smart, and you will figure it out." don't solve her problems, just give her the reassurance she was looking for. If you solve them, she will view you as her emotional dustbin (AKA friend)

3: There are so many fucking girls out there, i am in high school too and i had your problem too. But i got over it, got into pickup, and scored loads of girls. the whole thing is exponential, and the more you get, the more will come even easier than before. Also, when the girl breaks up with her BF and sees you scoring all the girls, she will get jealous, but will realize she has an excuse to talk to you, and therefore will. Thats when you're set, just make your move quick and act with confidence.

I hope i helped and good luck!