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Right, so I decided to join the forum a few months back because before I did all I really knew abut PU was what I had read in the game and stuff from the two PUA TV shows. After joining I learnt alot from AFC Adam's stuff and one of the key points was gaining more female friends to hang around with in clubs to gain social proof.
I started trying the game about a year ago with my friend who I had seen do it in a club. He impressed me and told me to read the book, told me it would help me. We did really well, closed alot of HB8's and winged each other but lately he gain a piece of serious oneitus and he doesn't want to go out anymore.
So The point to this post is to do with social proof when entering a club with a group of women and how to plant DHV's before I even enter a set in a club because of my 'entourage' On the week end I am catching a train an hour away from where I leave to Swansea in Wales. I am going with my sort of wing who has hardly any PUA experience and i'm also going with 5 girls who are all HB8's and one my preferably target a HB9. We're all staying in the same hotel in a couple different rooms and we're going to be hitting several clubs.
So really after explaining I was just wondering what a few of you think I should do, how I should attack this situation? They often form dance circles and I don't want to be seen as the tag along. Any pointers for me guys? You'd really be helping
I'm not sure if the question is on how to demonstrate social proof in the bar, or how to get the HB9 haha.
Let's assume for now that you want to demonstrate social proof in the bar.
First of all, do not neglect your AFC wingman. He's your friend, he's a guy, and he's with the group. A confident person is one who can interact with anyone, so make sure you incorporate him into the group.
The key of showing social proof when you have your entourage is to show that you can have fun and that everyone wants to be with you. Hugs everywhere, kisses on the cheeks, and dancing a lot can definitely help.
Do not stay with the group the whole time. Basically, you want to go in and out of your group of WOMEN, so people know that all of you are together and not that you're just trying to be friendly with strangers. Every time you join the group make sure you do something that conveys that all of you are together.
If possible, take pictures. Not YOU taking the actual pics, but having others doing so. For instance, use the "Take-me-a-pic" Opener:
Find a hot chick nearby and ask say: "Hey, can I ask you something?" (she might give you a bit of attitude as she pulls up her bitch shield)
When she responds, say "Can you take a picture of me and my friends?" and give her the camera. Make sure she doesn't see the camera before this moment.
She'll be a bit surprised but most likely she'll agree to take the pic. You can tease her saying stuff like "you know how to take a picture, right?! hahaha".
When she takes the pic, make sure you're in the middle of the group (all females surrounding you). Once the stranger takes the pic, go to her and say thanks, and that you appreciate it. Cut her off at that point, and tell her to take a picture with you (make sure you do it with high energy).
This time, you take the camera, and take a picture with her. Calibrate the situation, and if you see that she has a good vibe you can go into escalation QUICK from there. You can even tell her to take the "3 cool pics": One smiling, one with a funny face, and the third one with her kissing you on the cheek.
Do not tell her what the "3 cool pics" are beforehand. Take one by one so she doesnt freak out
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So, now you have a good approach for other girls, and you should have a good idea of how to use your group.
BE FUN. That's the trick.
Hope it helps, take care, and enjoy man!
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