I tried "What do you want me to fix you for breakfast?" It gets the shock and awe response I intended it to have.



Anne, sometimes, I am getting a vibe that the woman is sending that tells me she's in to me, but "there is no way I will sleep with you, tonight" vibe going as well.

Is that a real vibe, or is my AFC self coming through once again?

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Sounds like she likes your company but when you get that "Im not sleeping with you tonight" vibe.. To me it means "I got someone else I wana sleep with tonight"

I find you get this with HBs with BFs. They like the feeling of being single when they are out with there friends. They enjoy the attention

Thats how I see it. Im sure Anne will give her opinion soon.

it's great that there are women in the community. welcome luv

Intially it would be his looks. Like a cute face and trim body. Not keen on beer guts, bald men or bearded men. However, a couple of days growth of stubble's quite nice in the right circumstances . At the moment I'm not looking for a regular b/f after coming out of a long term relationship, just a bit of fun. If I was looking for something longer term, looks would be less important.

As for what's cheeky, anything that suggests sex, even if in a vague way.

Never thought about it that way, but I guess I do give off a vibe if I want to sleep with a guy. Like a sexy smile, bit of kino and being cheeky back to the guy. I guess the absence of that answers your question? But there's no distinct 'I don't want to' vibe that I'm aware of.

hi

Hope you decide to stick around. We're thinking about creating a women's section on the forum headed by Zip, our female moderator.

thanks

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Also love your chat up line about breakfast. If a cute guy said that to me, well ... Trouble is, I've met very few guys who have the confidence to use that sort of thing as an approach line.

Have you had lots of success with that one ?

Thanks again. I use it as a fun opener. I have so many, depending on the situation.

I have not had much success beyond getting her to respond, because I haven't perfected it. I have been milking it instead of saying it, then transitioning to something else.

The conversation gets int her telling me, then my responding to it about boring breakfast stuff. Instead, I need to talk about everything else.

This week, I will perfect it. It will be my opener all week, until I hone it just right.

Thanks for the inspiration.

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Hi everybody, i m new here! This is my first post. I am a 25 year old man from Holland and am not (yet) a PUA, and only read one day one the site! And now ALREADY i can see, 90% of these replys in this topic the men are jumping at the feet of that london woman like little puppys as though she had little meatsaucugges in her hands, WOMAN DONT KNOW WHAT THEY want!!! after only one day reading on that site things are beginning to make sense for me now! More so then years of relationships and talking to my best lady-freinds!!! you are all asking, what do you like, what is cheecky? what should i do? what should i wear? what do watch out for? That london woman comes here, and starts playing the leader! Fuck that shit !!! (no one knows iff her picture is real, even if she is indeed a woman,) and on the first sign of a blond hair, and 90% of the guys are allready sucking up to her like a baby on a tit in spring ! I also was like that, but i will change!!! You all make me sick!!! sick i tell you!!!