Hello all!

I'm Keith, I'm from Canada, and I'm 25 years old. I, like many others, stumbled upon this community through the Neil Strauss book, and I have become instantly fascinated. Although I am an absolute amateur, I have the drive to make a change in my lifestyle.

A little about myself, I've been with 8 women because I was always more of a relationship guy. I've cut 100 lbs after I started balding (dropped from 270 to 170, decided I could only be fat or bald, not both. And slimming is more attractive that a toupee), and recently I've noticed that I've been garnering attention from the opposite sex. The problem is, I had a lot of insecurities with my obesity, and while the insecurities might not necessarily still exist, I never developed a good sense of comfort in social situations. I'm still awkward and nervous, especially in one on one encounters. I have charm, wit, and a sense of humor, but there's a barricade of anxiety superseding any natural traits I might have. I'm joining this community, hopefully to find a way to conquer this debilitating burden, this fear of being judged or rejected, which will greatly improve many areas of my life. This is more than collecting one night stands, this is for building confidence necessary to reach my goals and ambitions in life. If I can make the drastic physical change of losing weight, I know I can conquer this fear of the unknown that has plagued me my entire life.

Looking forward to talking to you all.
Cheers!