Hey guys!

A friend of mine suggested that I read The Game, awesome book, there are a lot of things you can learn from it and im trying to implement them every time I go out. The stuff really works.

I'm 26 years old, from Colombia, and I have serious problems with the opening. Once I get through that I find the rest rather easy, but it is the opening that I just can't do. Any suggestions on how to improve on that part would be greatly appreciated. My problem is when I know I must open I just black out, wait too long and do nothing... then the moment fades away.

Also, if there are any other PUA's from Bogotá, Colombia and they have a strong game and are willing to teach I would be happy to go out with them. I'll be reading as much as I can from the forums and if you guys could suggest any books which make enfasis on the theory, especially opening, it would be great.

Happy to be here!

Stop being "outcome dependent" when you approach. Approach just for the sake of having a face to face interaction. Seek nothing from it besides talking. It's not the approach you are afraid of... It's the rejection and the emotional damage that comes from it.