Hi all,

I am a 43 years old guy living in Montreal. I have worked out all my life, so today, i am grateful to look at least 10 years younger and be really fit and having the energy to do all that i have to do and on top of that finding time to live my seduction part

I teach management software and i've been interested in pick up and seduction since 2000. It all started when one of my student taught me some concepts on neuro linguistic programming which captivated me and then i stumbled upon Ross Jeffries material and learned it and practiced it. Then i fell in love with a nice woman and had 4 children with her. Now that they are a bit grown up, i can think about myself again.

I always loved seducing women and since I've only worked mostly with women, i had a lot of chance to practice and refine my "communication" if i may say. But what always stopped me from crossing over and getting physical and really intimate was my faithfulness to my wife and my total implication at raising my 4 daughters. In the past month, my relation with my wife evolved and we agreed to go see others. This was sort of a new start and i gave myself permission to go all the way and truly become a ladies man(at least in my mind). I love dancing, so i joined a dancing class and of course there were only women there so i was the "by default" alpha. Though, It gave me a chance to really apply the alpha principle with body language and projecting that alpha image, and i had some success. Not as much as i thought yet. I struggle less and less with my inner self and get to be more present and ultimately be at one with the woman i am talking to.

I have and still watch tons of video and read lots of stuff (too much maybe) and there are a couple of guys that really caught my attention in how the present themselves (ex: James Marshall) and i am grabbing bits here and there. I don't do techniques because, i don't want to rely on a trick to go where i want to go, so my style is more of a free talker and i am more concerned of what the other person is feeling and how am i going to bring them in the state that i want to. It's only recently after taking some pnl training (with a woman that i seduced and the became my teacher) and learning different technique for grounding myself and just be in the moment and also some breathing technique that i found a new paradigm on how i should interact with women.

My ultimate goal is to do pickup anywhere (enough of the workplace) and be able to sweep a stranger and knowing that i gave her a unique experience in that brief moment. The problem is, i can't convince myself to go out and do it. Also, i want to extend my seducing qualities to anyone as well. i have an admiration for the selling profession and i contemplate that path. But to be able to be magnificent, i have to master this aspect of seducing(in a different way) a potential buyer. Anyway i'll come back to that.

I am looking to talk with someone who can help me get to my goal. I am a self taught person and i have the qualities to get there. Just need some guidance.

Hope you are all satisfied with your life

Regards,

Stef

Hey Stef,

I am glad to realize that you are as passionate about seducing women as I am. I dare to say that by following your passion, you're half way through to achieving your desired success.

And, following your passion all comes down to being honest to yourself and to the woman you want to seduce in terms of revealing to her your true sexual desires early in the conversation. All this leads me to quite simply recommend that you always try to be as bold and direct when approaching women as you can because you want to get her 'yes' or 'no' as soon as possible.

I am glad that you've made the comparison between seducing and selling because as you know they both work on the same communication principle.

If you've worked in either direct sales or cold calling field like myself, then you know that every time you're talking to a potential buyer, you never want to leave such conversation by letting your potential buyer throw a bunch of excuses at you (e.g. give me a leaflet or send me an email and I'll come back to you).

Instead, I believe that you would rather get that potential buyer's 'yes' or 'no.'

By the way, I am now 39 and have gone through the similar path of studying and testing different seduction techniques like you.

Anyway, thanks to my latest breakthroughs in the area of my own personal growth and development after years of struggles and failures in both the field of picking up women and also in the field of starting my own business, I have learned that the only best resource for you to go to in order to find the best answer on how you should improve your game is nowhere else but only inside you.

You'll be able to undestand the latter only if you decide to focus on what you really want to achieve instead of how to achieve it. If you do the other way around, you'll most likely get trapped in the vicious circle of information overload that's normally the main stumbling block that's holding us back from unleashing our best in achieving whatever we want to achieve.

Not wanting to take much of your time, if you want to learn how I went from being a totally lost dead broke 30+ year old virgin wuss to unleashing my best in both the area of effortlessly sexually attracting hot women and also in the area of starting my dream business, I suggest that you check out my true story at the bottom of this post.

For any further questions, please do not hesitate to shoot me a private message (PM).

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