Hello everyone,

I am a 21 year old college student who is tired of being "good" at the things I do. Overall, I can't complain about my life, I am a student athlete who gets decent grades and I generally do not have a problem attracting women. I have pretty decent game and I would say I know the basics (like not getting in the friend zone, my ability to open/close, general conversation etc). Basically, I have no problem pulling "decent" 6,7 & 8's. I get solid playing time and contribute to my teams, but I am not the captain, and I also red-shirted as a freshman. And on top of that I have a "decent" 2.7 GPA (might not seem that high, but compared to a lot of the people I know, it's actually pretty decent lol). As you can see, I have "good enough" syndrome, and for a while, I was fine with that. But I don't know what it is, something in me wants to do better, and I want to be the best at everything haha. Seriously, who wants to be in second place all their life, when you can be in first? Who wants to be a face in the crowd when you can stand out? Why get silver, when I can get gold?

I realized that I can be the best, all I have to do is stop being complacent with being good. I'm tired of hearing "you know, you could really be the best at (insert interchangeable task here) if you just put some effort into it". So I took a look in the mirror, and decided that I am going to just say "fuck it" and do everything the right way instead of the "half-assed-pretty-good" way. One of the aspects of my life I want to change is to have the ability to have any woman I desire, and this forum will be my new class.

Anyway, that pretty much describes my attitude, I look forward to reading through this forum, discussing topics and learning as much as possible here.

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