Hello there, Name's Vacuum, 21 years old, computer technician/nurse, I've been looking for solutions to my long time problems of how to keep a woman interested.

here's usually what happens, we meet, attraction sparks fly, we have good vibes, but I just can't escalate it to the next level, I'm not sure of what to say, and I'm left stuck in the doldrums.

If that doesn't happen, then I'm usually at a loss on words to say, or how to get any sort of movement going, I can deal the the starting "spiel" but I can't do rebuttals, nor inject in any fuel to an already dying flame, I had game when I was in high school, but since I got cheated on in college things just haven't been the same, I'm sure its me, not the girl, and yes, I'm what you call a "fall-back" guy, which I've tried to stop being yet old habits die hard.

I've been reading a few books from so called PUAs like Eric Rogell's Art of War for Dating and have tried and tested the methods, been trying out my own experiments that have yet come to fruition, and yes, I did get one or two in bed, but I just can't be satisfied by learning that, I'm craving for more knowledge and insight from this forum.

Ask me any questions and for the record I still consider myself an AFC "for now".