I don't have the posting privileges yet to post this to the relationship board so string me up or forgive me for posting it here. I need advice ASAP

The Dilemma Outline:

Recently I've felt my girlfriend (of seven months) hasn't been giving me the attention that I deserve, emotionally, sexually and with her time. I went about dealing with this quite badly in retrospect and our interactions have a lot of underlying hostility. I lost my patience and ended a conversation with vicious sarcasm to which she (justifiably) replied to with "K".

We haven't seen each other or even exchanged a single text message since and that was three days ago. It is unusual for us to go a day without some form of communication. My hope was that my freeze out would lead her to chase me although I think I probably went too far. I believe she will be too stubborn to be the first to pick up the phone, especially as I was the one that initiated the silence.

My Desired Outcome:

This is not a relationship that I want to end at this point so I wish to reconcile. My issue is that her lack of attention towards me most likely comes from a lowering of her interest towards me in recent weeks. If she isn't going to be the one to get in touch first then it is up to me. This poses the problem of me lowering my value, if I'm seen as "crawling back to her" then her position will be higher than mine and subsequently her interest levels will drop further!!


Should I call her or stick it out?
If I should call, how should I frame it to keep my value high?

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TruthLoveLaugh

Personally mate... Im no expert.... I would say... Your position is pretty low anyway by the sounds of things... So i would take the hit... "Crawl Back"... Then once its sorted then try and build yourself up and make yourself desireable?...