i can message her on fb and ask apart from that go her house lol yeah i dont like fb just thats how we been chatting and at school but just never felt right to ask her for num if you know what i mean.im going thai boxing for 3 hours tonight so should i message her after as thats when im feeling my best or just leave it for a few days.i could prob make the beach trip next week if get me car sorted this weekend but dont knoww her plans either.i dont have my kids this weekend so would you ask hangout?she got her kids tho.

Not if she has her kids, but that's my way. I don't try to meet the kids early. But - I'm the non-commitment type guy. Kids = closeness and I've not allowed myself to GET that close most of the time.

Just let it sit. Do something this weekend. If you've ever posted pics/comments about shit youv'e done, this would be a good time to do that again - and try to get her to comment, then you can send a message to her saying "Yeah, it was a good time... it would have been cool if you were there. I bet you'd have had a blast."...

Then you start trying to have her picture herself in those situations with you...

Thoughts?


RR

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yeah sounds good tho having a smoke n drink tonight so prob end up messageing then lol i will try not to tho.yeah the kid thing i dont mind ive always been good with kids and she thinks its good ive kept my kids after the wife left. i could comment on her pics from last weekend to shes the biggest in her so shes always ducking down in her pics sure a good comment could do it.ty